I'm going through a transitional period in my life right now. Every 6 months or so I reevaluate what I'm unhappy about and decide to make the decision of "no more." You have to always keep raising your standards and demanding more for yourself. If you keep finding yourself unhappy with something or someone, make a real decision. A real decision means you actually are taking action to change it. How many times are you going to sit back and let the same things happen over and over that you're not okay with? You're the only one who can fully take charge of your life. When you start demanding more, you get more. I've learned that more than anything this and last year. Maybe I've been watching too much Tony Robbins or I've been listening to too much of Kanye's The Life of Pablo but I feel more drive than ever to get my situation in order.