Next Level

3/23/2014 | Best Blogger Tips
"When you become the right person, what I mean by the right person is, once you identify who you are, you begin to separate yourself from the masses and thats when you begin to see your individuality. When you begin to see your talents, when you begin to see your personal skill. When you become the right person, what you do is you start separating yourself from other people, you begin to have a certain uniqueness. As long as you're following other people, as long as you're being a copy cat, you will never ever be the best copy cat in the world. But you will be the best you can be. I'm telling you to define your value. If you wanna make more money, if you wanna be more successful, if you wanna have and do stuff you have never done before, invest in you. Invest time in yourself. Some of you, you spend so much time with other people, you spend so much time trying to get people to like you, you spend so much time trying to fit in that you don't even know who you are. You know other people more than you know yourself. You study them, you know about them, you want to hang out like them, you want to be just like them. You've invested so much time in them that you don't know who you are. You've invested so much of your time in being liked by other people, being loved by other people, being appreciated by other people that you don't even know who you are. And I challenge you to invest time in your own self. I challenge you to get to a place where people don't even like you and don't even bother you anymore. Why? Cause you're not concerned with trying to make them happy because you're trying to blow up, you're trying to get to next level. They say "I don't like the fact that you do this." I don't care. I'm not living my life for you, I'm living my life for me." -Eric Thomas

Wearing: Cordoba NastyGal Pump, MissGuided black mini dress, sheer overlay (similar dress), gold elephant necklace (mine is a belt but I used it as a necklace)

12 comments:

  1. I absolutely love it.. how do I get one?

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  2. I've been avid follower of your blog and my gosh you helped me embrace who I am. Love your style!

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  3. Hello,Ciao...what a lovely outfit...you're an Artist of Style!
    Ciao from Italy

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  4. You are really chic in this outfit! Love the necklace!
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  5. You just look stunning ! I love your blog !
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  6. i love the sheer overlace blouse! its amazing! great look and i love how you used your belt as a necklace!
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  7. hey nadia )) first of all i want to thank you for your personality,i always had problems about my weight(complex) but now everything will change because of you,you are my inspiration,shine bright !

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  8. I can't get over that belt/necklace…amazing!

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  9. I'm embracing your post and it means a lot and it is really true. Love your outfit! Fun

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  10. Thank you for sharing this it really hits home for me ... I used to care why people don't like me why I've lost so many friends but now im so focused on me it doesn't matter anymore and now at the age of 35 I feel more complete than ever im happy with me and my little family :) other people's success like yours is what drives me to want to be a better person .... Nadia you're amazing and your style your words are changing lives keep being you doll ;)

    Love always
    Melissa

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