May 26, 2012

take charge of your life.


"He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away." -Raymond Hull

Now that I live in NY, I have a new technique for when I pick out ensembles. I go through so many phases that it's hard to choose which ones to post on my blog and which to leave out. So I wear outfits I think are the best and walk around the city to see people's reactions, facial expressions, and comments. If people give compliments, it's a given to put up on here. If people give bad stares, then for sure, it's a good outfit. The majority of people give bad stares when it's not something they're use to, so their reaction at first is to automatically be negative since they aren't familiar to change. This outfit was one of them. Wearing a drug awareness jacket in the hood is the funnest thing I've done in a while. I've always been big on reality. Accepting reality for what it is and choosing to deal with it makes you a stronger person than resorting to a substance to make you feel better momentarily. After it wears off, it brings you back to the same reality that you didn't want to deal with in the first place. I remember when I was little how big D.A.R.E. was at my school, how interested I was in it, the plays they had, and how weak the people who got peer pressured looked. I use to always think about D.A.R.E. whenever someone tried persuading me to do something. Not just with drugs, but with anything really. Anything that had to do with conforming to what they wanted me to be. D.A.R.E. for me isn't just about drug awareness, it's about daring to be different, being opposed to the typical, not forming into something other people want you to be. I swear I should be a brand ambassador for them haha. Can we discuss my high bun on top of my hat? haha I love it. On another note, I hope everyone has a great Memorial Day weekend. Thank you Monroe for taking my pictures!


thrifted corset, skirt & hat, bakers platform heels, D.A.R.E. jacket from here

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43 comments:

suko26 said...

What a beautiful outfit. I love the boyish yet so feminine style. The corsett underneath is so sexy. Just gorgeous!

Olivia said...

Your smile is so pretty. Gorgeous :)

Sade said...

I am insanely jealous of your figure girl! You are working that D.A.R.E hat!

Merrybelly said...

Love your shoes!
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NRC♥ said...

Hottie <3

Fran M. said...

You look perfect!

xx

.Big Size Big World♥ said...

stunning! love that outfit so much!

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Eat.Style.Play said...

I remember DARE and officer friendly visiting our schools. One of the reasons why I was never into drugs, and break rules. I guess with kids these days they don't burst into schools like this preaching this lol. Anyway it's cool that you have one of these jackets and i'm kinda envious that you can pull of that top! My boobs are crazyyy!

Anonymous said...

first pic of you smiling!! It's beautiful, you should do that more often :D

D.R. said...

you look so casual and chic at the same time great look

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Anonymous said...

So beautiful <3

Milka said...

Great outfit!
I love your blog, you look gorgeous!

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Alison said...

i call this "nadi from the block"

Lanaé said...

I flippin LOVE it! Totally something I would do! Can't wait for more posts!!!

XO,
Lanaé
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Confessions of A Confused City Girl said...

Very cute outfit! Lol yeah, wearing a dare hoodie in the hood is a bit hilarious. I used to participate in the dare programs too... for me i always thought it was silly because i kind of felt like "Duh, everyone knows drugs are bad.... wait, dont they?"

~Sherine
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Deppa said...

"their reaction at first is to automatically be negative since they aren't familiar to change"
That is sooo true Nadia! but people is people, so we can't change that.

I love your risky attitude, you are unique :)

See you.

Kasey said...

i adore this, it looks amazing yet so effortless. Love it.

fenja desire said...

you're such an inspiration every time i look at your photos!

KM said...

what a beautiful legs, you are very sexy

Monroe Steele said...

you're hot...*spanks on ass*

lol

xx
Monroe

Fashion Steele NYC

andrea facchini said...

Nadia smiling for once! A ray of sunshine, thanks! Maybe one day I will paint you on that way. Regards, Andrea Facchini (Facebook) a painter from Italy. (I'd be curious to know your opinion on my style www.facchini.com)

Krystal Grace said...

Very 90s, it's cute... You have curves for days, adore it!

~Jeimy~ said...

love your smile the outfit is super cute love the corset!

Carsedra said...

Chic and hip, very cute!! You have such a pretty smile!!


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Anonymous said...

cudownie

Nathan said...

I think you might be the first person to make DARE apparel look hot.

Lace N Leopard said...

So retro chic! Love it. I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award :)
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Lace N Leopard said...

So retro chic! Love it. I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award :)
www.lacenleopard.com

Justalazymorning said...

super cute!!

DRIKA said...

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Lydia said...

This is very Jennifer Lopez when she was a Fly Girl!!

DeepDown in side you'll know who this is. said...

Una palabra no dice nada
y al mismo tiempo lo esconde todo
igual que el viento que esconde el agua
como las flores que esconde el lodo.

Una mirada no dice nada
y al mismo tiempo lo dice todo
como la lluvia sobre tu cara
o el viejo mapa de algún tesoro.

Una verdad no dice nada
y al mismo tiempo lo esconde todo
como una hoguera que no se apaga
como una piedra que nace polvo.

Si un día me faltas no seré nada
y al mismo tiempo lo seré todo
porque en tus ojos están mis alas
y está la orilla donde me ahogo,
porque en tus ojos están mis alas
y está la orilla donde me ahogo.

socialitedreams said...

loving that top girl and your confident beauty

Vonnie of Socialitedreams.com

Tofazain said...

Hi Nadia, Very nice and inspiratif blog for me. I've just put your Blog Link to my blogroll, please check it out, and do it back to me. Thanks

MuffinCannibal said...

Amazing outfit, you look so gorgeous! <3
I love your shoes ;)

xoxo

alessandra said...

beautyfulllllll

Charismainbklyn said...

I truly relate to this post. While I was in school, drugs of whatever kind was the norm. I wasn't interested in the least. Why the hell would I wanna take something to temporarily "fix" the situation when really it makes it worse? High-five to this awareness post on life. I'm glad I'm not the only one in tune with reality. Not to judge those who have succumb to drug abuse. It' can be a sickness and sometimes difficult to bounce back from. Anything is possible and there's no excuse not to live a happy n healthy life...
PS great outfit ;)

watchoutjoe said...

That last picture is so beautiful!!!

Purple Paparazzi said...

I really miss the frequency of your posts, like when you were living in Florida, but I guess that just means you are on your grind now that you are in NYC!!! LOOOOOOVVEEEE your blog as always!

Ashley Rose said...

WOW WOW WOW i am completely crushing on you babe, your style is amazing!

Rebecca Jane said...

That jacket is AMAZING. A genius find, have to say. Also? You look fantastic in this outfit!

DafraStar said...

This look i absolutely gorgeous, and your smile is very contagious.

Lala said...

Can we all start dressing like this again PLEASE! So sexy and fly